Don’t Say “Baby”

Don’t Say “Baby”

Baby Shower Game Structure: Don’t Say “Baby”

1. Overview of the Game

  • Objective: Guests avoid saying the word “baby” during the shower. If they do, others can “steal” their clothespins.
  • Winner: The guest with the most clothespins at the end wins.

2. Preparation Checklist

Materials Needed

  • Clothespins: 3–5 per guest (adjust based on group size).
  • Signage: A visible sign with the rules (e.g., “Don’t Say ‘Baby’!”).
  • Instructions: Printed or verbal explanation for guests.

Pre-Game Setup

  • Distribute clothespins to guests as they arrive.
  • Announce rules clearly at the start of the shower.

3. Step-by-Step Execution

Phase 1: The Baby Shower Game : Don’t Say “Baby” Begins

  • Rule Announcement:
    • Explain that saying “baby” allows others to take one clothespin from the offender.
    • Clarify if nicknames (e.g., “babe”) or indirect mentions (e.g., “the little one”) count.

Phase 2: Gameplay

  • Stealing Mechanism:
    • Encourage playful competition by reminding guests to stay alert.
    • Designate a moderator (e.g., the host) to resolve disputes.

Phase 3: Declare the Winner

  • Final Count: Tally clothespins 15–30 minutes before the shower ends.
  • Prize: Award a small gift to the winner (optional but recommended).

4. Tips for Success

Pro Tips for the Host

  • Subtle Triggers: Occasionally say “baby” yourself early on to break the ice.
  • Visual Reminders: Place a central “Don’t Say Baby” sign to keep rules top-of-mind.
  • Gentle Warnings: For guests who forget, give a lighthearted reminder instead of immediate penalties.

Guest Engagement Strategies

  • Icebreaker: Start with a practice round to demonstrate the rules.
  • Encourage Teamwork: Allow alliances (e.g., groups pooling clothespins).

5. Key Considerations

Potential Challenges

  • Over-Competitiveness: Monitor for aggressive behavior; keep the mood light.
  • Rule Ambiguity: Define clear boundaries (e.g., song lyrics, gifts with “baby” printed).
  • Guest Participation: Ensure shy guests are included by prompting interactions.

Adaptations

  • Shorter Version: Run the game for 1 hour instead of the entire shower.
  • Theme Variations: Replace “baby” with gender-specific terms (e.g., “boy”/“girl”) for themed showers.

6. Final Advice

  • Test Run: Do a trial with friends to refine rules.
  • Backup Plan: Have extra clothespins and a timer ready.
  • Have Fun: Emphasize that the game is about laughter, not strict competition.